[...]Do you know
who are the peacemakers Jesus is talking about?
They are not the
kind of people who simply love peace and quiet and cannot bear rows, the kind
who are naturally easy-going, but, deep down, just do not want to be disturbed
or have any bother.
Neither are
peacemakers those good people who, trusting in God, do not react when they are
provoked or insulted. Peacemakers are those who love peace so much that they
are not afraid to intervene in a conflict so as to bring peace to those who are
at odds with one another.
Only those who
possess peace in themselves can be bearers of peace.
We must be
bearers of peace first of all in the way we behave moment by moment, living in
harmony with God and doing his will. Peacemakers strive furthermore to forge
bonds and build up relationships among people, reducing tension and dismantling
the 'cold war' that they find in many different places, among families, in
work-places, at school, on the sports field, between nations, etc. Even in your
own home you may be aware, possibly always have been aware, that your father
has not spoken to his brother ever since they once fell out. You know that your
grandmother does not say a word to the person upstairs because of the noise she
makes. You see the rivalry between your friends at work. Perhaps you yourself
often quarrel with others at school: and with your peers, who play the same
sport as you, you are not on the best of terms - you find yourself ruled by an
overriding desire to be first, to beat everyone else, and it is not simply a
wish to match their excellence. If you live in a community you will have
noticed how many little, or not so little, disagreements can spring up and
grow. Every day, television and radio bring home to you the fact that the world
is like a huge hospital, and the nations are like large patients in urgent need
of peacemakers to heal tense and intolerable relationships that threaten to
cause war, if it has not already happened.
Peace is a
particular feature, typical of Christian relationships, which believers seek to
establish with the people they are in touch with regularly or those they see
only occasionally: These relationships are based on sincere love, without
falseness or deceit, without any trace of implicit violence or rivalry,
competition or self-centredness. To work so as to establish these kinds of
relationships in our world is in itself a revolutionary act. The way people
normally relate to one another is entirely different and unfortunately hardly
ever changes. Jesus knew how things were and this is why he asked his disciples
always to take the first step, without expecting any initiative or response
from the other person, without expecting anything mutual: "But I say this
to you, love your enemies... and if you greet only your brothers and sisters,
what more are you doing than others?" (Matt. 5:44-47).
Jesus came to
bring peace. Everything he said and did revealed this. However, when this new
kind of relationship is established among people, it frequently unmasks false
social relationships, revealing the violence that is hidden there. Not everyone
is happy when this truth comes out and so there is the danger, in extreme
cases, that some people might react with hatred and violence towards those who
dare to disturb the present ways of living and accepted structures.
'... they shall
be called children of God'. To be given a name means becoming what the name
says. Paul called God 'the God of peace' and he greeted Christians with the
words ' May the God of peace be with you all'. Peacemakers show that they are
part of God's family, they act as his children and bear witness to the fact
that, as a document of the Roman Catholic Church says, 'Peace is the fruit of
that right ordering of things which God has built into human society.'
How can you live
this word of the gospel?
First of all by
spreading love in the world. It is significant that Mother Teresa of Calcutta,
an exceptional woman who did nothing but love throughout her life, was awarded
the Nobel Peace Prize.
Then, try to take
action, prudently, when you find the peace around you is broken. Often it is
just a question of listening with love, and completely, to the two sides who
are quarrelling, and a peaceful solution can be found.
You can build peace
by never giving up in your efforts to re-build relationships that were spoilt
by things that were really nothing at all.
An important
means to de-fuse tense situations is the use of humour: A rabbinic text says,
'The kingdom of the future belongs to those who love a good joke, because they
are peacemakers among people who quarrel.'
Maybe you can be
a peacemaker by setting up, within any organisation or other body you belong
to, special projects to promote a greater awareness of the need for peace.
Furthermore, so
far as you are able, you could support the work of great and sincere
peacemakers, such as the present Pope or others in your own country and in the
world.
What matters is
that you should not sit still and watch the few days of life you have passing
by, without doing something for your neighbours, without preparing yourself
properly for the life to come.
12 months ago today I
collapsed at work and was diagnosed with the brain tumour! What a year it has
been! Full of graces, full of gifts, full of signs of God’s love for me. But there
are also temptations and sufferings, such as getting fixated with dates. At the
beginning I was told the prognosis is on average 14 month which gives me
another 8 weeks. That is a very limited way of looking at thing, because
whether that is true or not does not depend on me or anybody, but on the plan
God has for me. So in the meantime live fully in the present moment. Today’s
motto then is to build peace in the present moment by loving my neighbour!
Manfred,
ReplyDeleteI thank God for the gift you have given to all of us by sharing your experience over this year. When I send the Word of Life to my relatives and friends at the beginning of the month, I often offer a few lines from one of your reflections because the testimony of your life is so strong and pure. And they respond. You remain in my prayers each day.
Tom